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As the new year approaches, I find myself reflecting on an experience that deeply impacted both my personal growth and my understanding of leadership. Recently, I had the privilege of traveling to Thailand on a mission trip, where I had the opportunity to serve through a Christmas outreach. This trip was not only about sharing the gospel, offering personal stories, and providing essential items like shoes to children in orphanages and refugee camps. It was also about understanding what it truly means to serve others—and more importantly, how to serve without hurting.
I learned valuable lessons in servant leadership that I’ll carry with me into both my personal and professional life. Here are a few key takeaways from my time in Thailand:
1. Be in Community - One of the most significant lessons I learned on this trip was the importance of being in community. Serving others in isolation can often lead to missteps or an inability to fully understand the needs of those we are trying to help. But when we are in community—both with those we serve and with our team—we are able to listen, learn, and work together to make a greater impact. It’s easy to see service as a one-way transaction, but true servant leadership is about mutual exchange, connection, and shared experiences.
2. Follow the Lead - As someone who typically likes to take charge, I had to learn the importance of following the lead of those who understand the local culture and needs better than I do. In Thailand, this meant listening carefully to local leaders and volunteers who were guiding the outreach efforts. They knew what the community needed most, and following their lead ensured that we didn’t impose solutions that weren’t helpful or appropriate. Servant leadership is about humility and recognizing when we need to step back and trust others' expertise.
3. Get Comfortable with the Uncomfortable - Serving in an unfamiliar environment can be incredibly uncomfortable. There were moments when I felt out of my depth—whether it was navigating a language barrier, trying to communicate with children in refugee camps, or working in less-than-ideal conditions. But it’s in those moments of discomfort that we grow. Servant leadership isn’t about always feeling comfortable; it’s about embracing those moments of discomfort, knowing they are essential to developing empathy and understanding the experiences of others.
4. You Will Not Reap the Rewards Immediately - This is a hard lesson, especially in a world where we are so accustomed to immediate results. During the mission trip, I came to understand that the fruits of servant leadership may not always be visible right away. We may not see the immediate impact of our service, and that's okay. Sometimes, our efforts—whether it’s distributing shoes, offering a kind word, or just being present—plant seeds that will grow over time. Real, lasting change takes patience, persistence, and faith that the work we do is valuable, even if we don’t see the rewards immediately.
Reflecting on this trip, I am grateful for the opportunity to have shared a piece of the Christmas spirit with others and to have served alongside a team of like-minded individuals. It deepened my passion for making a difference in the world and provided me with new tools to inspire and lead with authenticity and empathy.
As we enter into a new year, I am reminded of the power of servant leadership—how it’s not about the leader, but about those we serve. It’s about humbling ourselves, learning, and making a difference, even in ways we may never fully understand.
Here's to leading with authenticity and empathy in the new year. Cheers to 2025!